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Time Estimation Chart
Estimating the time that each ritual element will take to complete is not an exact science, but by using the guide below, you should be able to approximate the length of your ritual as you work on your outline.
We give a total time for some elements (e.g., 20 minutes total), while for others we indicate the time you'll need to allot for each guest who will be participating (e.g., 1-2 minutes each). These time estimates take into account the introduction that will need to be given for each segment. However, if you will be working with a group of women who have never before attended a ritual, you may need to provide them with more details about what you will be doing and why you will be doing it. If this is the case, you may want to add a couple of extra minutes to our estimates.
Note: Whenever a ritual element involves sharing, the time can really vary. When we are facilitating a ritual, we often choose someone who has been to a blessingway to go first, in order to set the pace and the depth for sharing or gift giving. If the blessingway is a new experience for all of the women in the circle, we will begin the segment ourselves in order to set an example for them to follow.
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| Adorning (See Pampering) |
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| Blessings and Wishes |
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Candle Blessing |
2 minutes each |
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Laying-on-of-Hands |
20 minutes total |
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Personal Blessings |
3 minutes each |
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Rose or Salt Water (group) |
10 minutes total |
| Breaks |
10-15 minutes total |
| Casting the Circle |
3-5 minutes total |
| Cleansing and Purification |
3-5 minute introduction |
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Smudging |
1 minute each |
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Rose or Salt Water |
1 minute each |
| Closing Statement |
1-2 minutes total |
| Connecting (See Meditation) |
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| Creating (Group Activity) |
30-60 minutes total |
| Feast |
1-2 hours total |
| Gathering Time (Pre-Blessingway) |
30-60 minutes total |
| Giving Gifts |
2-5 minutes each |
| Honoring |
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Belly Casting |
45-60 minutes total |
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Crowning |
5-10 minutes total |
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Letters to Baby |
2-4 minutes each |
| Invocations and Evocations |
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Summoning the Four Directions |
10 minutes total |
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Summoning the Divine |
3-5 minutes total |
| Meditations |
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Guided Meditations |
10-20 minutes total |
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Music Meditations |
5-10 minutes total |
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Silent Meditations |
5-10 minutes total |
| Opening the Circle |
1-3 minutes total |
| Opening to the Divine (See Invocations and Evocations) |
| Pampering |
45-60 minutes total |
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Hair brushing, footbath, massage, mehndi (or other form of adornment), all happening simultaneously. |
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| Personal Introductions |
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Brief (e.g., by matrilineal heritage) |
2 minutes each |
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Introductions that involve sharing (e.g.,
by altar item or questions) |
3-5 minutes each |
| Raising Energy |
5-10 minutes total |
| Readings |
5-10 minutes total |
| Releasing Fears |
30-60 minutes total |
| Sharing and Storytelling |
3-5 minutes each |
| Sibling Ceremony |
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Gift presentation |
2-3 minutes each |
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Sharing (mother-to-be) |
5-10 minutes total |
| Statement of Purpose |
5-7 minutes total |
| Web Weaving |
10 minutes total |
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